Men are humans. Like REAL humans. They have wants, needs and guess what else ... emotions. Real actual feelings. They feel. I think we often forget that about them in this way. Gender stereotypes have painted men into strong, stoic, hyper-macho, meathead muscle houses. Some are, but we are beyond naive if we think that men are not affected by our words. Some thoughts on why I think men don't cry if you care to know.
Gal pals, let's band together and start treating men the way that we want to be treated. It's really really easy. Think about what you're about to say and consider how you'd feel if someone said it to you. Think about what you are trying to communicate before verbally attacking your guy.
Your parter is there for you and you are there for him - so show it! Be kind and choose words that will best communicate that your needs are not being met. He's not a mind reader. You have to inform him of your expectations, wants, needs and even disappointments and he needs to do the same.
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